Frank Hotelke Narcomey

Frank Hotelke Narcomey

1957 – 2019

Frank Hotelke Narcomey, born May 17th, 1957 in Pawnee, Oklahoma went to be with The Great Spirit on Wednesday, April 17th in his hometown of Edmond, Oklahoma.

Frank touched the hearts of every person he met. Those who had the privilege of meeting Frank knew that his life experience both personal and professional drew everyone toward him. Frank’s humility, work ethic, charm and meticulousness were witnessed in every facet of his beautiful life. Frank was the one person that seemed to be able to navigate his family, business and friends through life’s many obstacles. All this was possible through his sobriety and his relationship with a Higher Power. Frank loved extremely hard. His wife, Cindy, was the source of love, stability and altruism and they raised two successful boys, Carson Hotelke Narcomey and Chase Hotelke Narcomey.

Many people saw the professional side of Frank. His work was thorough and he seemed to always outwork everyone. His attitude and motto was “I may not be the smartest, but I’ll outwork anyone.” This attitude allowed Frank to lead Southwind Construction Company to decades of success.

Those fortunate enough to see the playful side of Frank knew his deep passion for playing golf (he had four sets of clubs), pilates, and watching OU lose. He remained a Cowboy ever since he graduated with a Bachelors degree in Construction Management. Family dinners were filled with stories of the past, how he met his wife and hilarious things he wanted to do in his ‘next life.’ His sticky notes he left around the house included his infamous stick figures. Frank loved family trips and seeing the world God created. He was always planning the next family trip.

Frank had the character that most people seek. He lived life on life’s terms, trusted God, asked questions and always did the next right thing. Frank’s selflessness assisted the growth of people, places and many things he touched. He taught his boys how to love and be humble, never forgetting where he came from.

Frank persevered so much in his life; from poverty, alcoholism and loss of loved ones. His 32 years of sobriety allowed him to be the man he knew God wanted him to be. He was a member of the Seminole Nation and was proud of his heritage. This facet was very important, as it was where he drew his spiritual connection. He was a trusted member of many boards, both professional and philanthropic. He freely gave his time for the advancement of his community and of people.

Frank is preceded in death by his parents, Harold and Phyillis Narcomey. Frank is survived by his beautiful wife, Cindy Narcomey, two sons, Chase and Carson Narcomey, daughter in law, Raegan Narcomey, and granddaughter, Stella Narcomey. The family requests that everyone touched by Frank relish in his memory, hold loved ones close and trust God. A celebration of Frank’s life will be held on Friday, April 26th at 2 pm at Henderson Hills.