Beverly D. Van Osdol
1930-2024
Beverly (Davies) was born in Rochester, NY on August 20, 1930, the second child after Dale Davies, to her parents, Edith and Weyburn Davies. All three are now deceased. Beverly’s elementary years in Rochester were closed when her family moved to a farm near Pond Creek, Oklahoma, where she completed high school in 1948. Beverly was a noted lady with a beautiful voice. After many years of voice training, she enrolled at North Oklahoma College, NOJC, in Tonkawa as a voice major. She participated in many stage productions while a student and also later at Cumberland University. While at NOJC she met a student who pursued her for a date until she finally accepted. That guy, a Navy Vet and football player, Bill Van Osdol, has been her husband since, March 8, 1950. Bill wrote a manuscript detailing their dating-romance days that was accepted for the Bride and Groom Show in Hollywood. After three days of rehearsal, they were married on the ABC network show which granted them a new convertible car to drive to Santa Barbara, San Markan resort for a week’s honeymoon. The show also provided gifts beyond description plus the wedding rings, gowns and tuxedos. At the close of the activities, they drove back to Oklahoma on old Route 66 and after a short stop at Pond Creek and Jet, they drove to Lebanon, Tennessee where Bill was accepted for law school. But even with Bill’s GI bill they could not manage and returned to Oklahoma. From 1950 to 1964, Bill graduated with a BA, MA, Ph. D and they finally settled in Edmond, at UCO. It is noted, though, that during those fourteen years they struggled many times trying to stay on top of sanity/poverty while experiencing Bill’s teaching English and coaching football at Moorland, OK Imperial and Chula Vista, CA, and Wichita, KS. All those stops were family maintained by Beverly’s skill, love and care for the family’s cohesiveness. She was the rock that bound these boys together during twelve home changes in fourteen years. Face it: that was a tough task for a young lady who released a possible singing career to be the lead maintenance of a financially struggling family. Days of courtship, and dancing to big-band music every weekend, left them wondering what would have happened had she chosen singing, rather than motherhood.
The years that followed more than satisfied her choice of family rather than singing. She has been the sturdy wall that provided a stable home that followed three boys and their wives: Kelly and Sherrye, with Kacy, Kory, and Kody; Scott and Joann with Bianca and Darci who were adopted on a trip to Romania; Chris and Shelly with Kyle and Blaze. These are the sole possession of Beverly’s willingness to bypass any detour that would have prevented this family’s constellation. The family shared all holidays and travel throughout this world, such as family trips on four cruises, single trips to Rome, Paris and London. These children became families with children and the Van Osdol name moves onward. The joy of Beverly’s life was not the equal of anyone. Her life was an investment in stabilizing a home that would carry forward her three sons to an extended family to which all can be proud. The results of this union are evident in Beverly’s expression, smile, tears, voice of love where she connects personally with her family. By sharing devotion, love, stability, and total connection to each family member, Beverly can definitely say, “I’ve climbed my mountain from where I can see a valley of infinite family love, the joy of my life.”
Graveside services will be held at 1:00 p.m., Friday, November 1, 2024. A memorial service will follow at 2:00 p.m. at Matthews Funeral Home Chapel.
Condolences and prayers to the VA Osdol family. May your memories be sweet and peaceful.
Thank you, Vickey
It is always so hard to lose a loved one but sweet memories help us thru & the Lord wraps his loving arms around us— May he bless each of you!
We have many fond memories of the years that we lived across the street from the Van Osdols. Our daughters enjoyed playing at their home. They had a pool and Beverly was always very welcoming to them. We cherish the memories of your kind mother. The Warrens : Ancil, Mona, Gaila, Linda and Lesli
Thank you Mona, it was so nice to talk with you, glad you and Mr. Warren are doing well.
I want to add some personal comments.
Beverly was a true gem, and even though I haven’t seen her in nearly 50 years, I cherish the fond memories of her kindness and quiet watchfulness. As a child, I spent many hours with neighborhood kids at the Van Osdol home. She allowed all of us to come into her spotless house to play when it was hot, or she would sit in the patio room and watch us swim for hours. I can’t recall a time when she was anything but kind and welcoming.
One summer, Beverly taught us how to play poker. It was a large group of about eight kids sitting in a circle in her living room, having a great time. She made sure the younger children understood the game and that the older kids didn’t take advantage of our inexperience.
My fondest memory of her is when she asked if she could fix my hair. As a tomboy, I usually wore long braids, but she let my hair down and styled it with a fountain on top, which looked beautiful. She made me feel very special.
To Kelly, Scott, and my childhood buddy Chris, your mother was a dear and special person to all who had the privilege of knowing her. She truly was the best neighborhood mom.
Hey Linda, so glad to hear from you, it really warmed my heart. I actually do remember the poker lessons. Your mom was so nice to attend the funeral.
She looks great. We had a nice talk.So many memories of my best friend
We practically live in the “creek”. Swimming all summer during the day and
Kick the can at night!
Sincerely Chris
Van Osdol family,
I have known Bev since I was born almost 60 years ago. Her and Bill lived around the corner from us and were friends with my mom and dad. She was always so nice to us kids in the neighborhood. My fondest memories are the guinea pig races we had! What fun. And swimming in their pool.
I was sorry to hear of her passing and she will surely be missed. Last time I actually saw her was my dad’s funeral in 2017. She and Bill were truly great friends of our family,
Love to you all.
Thanks for the kind word, saw your mom at the service. She was so upbeat and happy, it took the edge off the day. Tell her thanks.
Sincerely
Chris